1. Shop- Ladies, you know the deal. No woman wants to share her secret shops of bogo and returns. These are sacred grounds. We don't just give this information away freely.  If your friend.to.be takes you to a hot new spot that you never knew about them chances are she's hinting for friendship. 

2. Shame- You knew before you stuffed yourself into those ugly culottes that it was a fashion mistake but you did it anyway. A real friend won't let that go down. She has to stop the madness. Yeah, it will hurt your feelings and you'll be embarrassed but it's a sacrifice worth making. Unless, you want to be seen at the local Starbucks looking like a clown.  

3. Claim- Most of the time, girls can be catty. When a female wants to introduce you to get other friends it's getting pretty serious. She is officially claiming you now. Time to get the matching friendship bracelets and silver heart best friends forever necklaces. 

She's the one.